{"id":141,"date":"2011-04-15T03:22:00","date_gmt":"2011-04-15T03:22:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/?p=141"},"modified":"2012-03-24T03:22:51","modified_gmt":"2012-03-24T03:22:51","slug":"mediation-a-ministry-of-reconciliation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/?p=141","title":{"rendered":"Mediation &ndash; A Ministry of Reconciliation"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"background-image: none; border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 0px 20px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; float: right; border-top: 0px; border-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" border=\"0\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/www.medarb.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/01\/394x455_mediation.jpg\">What is mediation?&nbsp; Mediation is a facilitated process for dealing with interpersonal conflicts.&nbsp; It is conciliatory rather than adversarial in nature.&nbsp; Mediation is based on trust and encourages honest open communication and collaboration to reach an outcome which as far as possible meets the needs of both parties.&nbsp; Mediation involves a structured process of listening, offering and receiving apologies and forgiveness for hurts, clarifying the key issues, exploring the issues as thoroughly as possible, and reaching agreement on an outcome or a way forward.&nbsp; The progress is usually recorded in a documented agreement which both parties are asked to sign as an indication of trust and goodwill.&nbsp; The mediators are usually trained for this ministry.&nbsp; Participants often bring a support person along with them.&nbsp; <\/h4>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Mediation is a contemporary process which essentially meets the criteria for the second stage of a Matthew 18 process.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Following are some outlines and documents which can be used in mediation.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dl.dropbox.com\/u\/950363\/TS\/CMT\/Intro%20to%20mediation%20V3.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">1.&nbsp; A handout to give to people prior to mediation<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dl.dropbox.com\/u\/950363\/TS\/CMT\/Steps%20%281page%29.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">2.&nbsp; A simple outline of the process which can be given out<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dl.dropbox.com\/u\/950363\/TS\/CMT\/Introduction%20to%20mediation%20for%20facilitators.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">3.&nbsp; A more detailed outline of the process for facilitators<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dl.dropbox.com\/u\/950363\/TS\/CMT\/Mediation%20Ground%20Rules.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">4.&nbsp; Agreed ground rules in mediation<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is mediation?&nbsp; Mediation is a facilitated process for dealing with interpersonal conflicts.&nbsp; It is conciliatory rather than adversarial in nature.&nbsp; Mediation is based on trust and encourages honest open communication and collaboration to reach an outcome which as far &#8230; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/?p=141\">Read More &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[20],"class_list":["post-141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-church-conflict","tag-mediation"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=141"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":142,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141\/revisions\/142"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=141"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=141"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/johnmark.net.au\/kz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=141"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}